Nespresso returned to TIFF to host three captivating and caffeine-filled panels, aptly called “Coffee with Creators” at Byblos restaurant – just downstairs from RBC House, which welcomed some of Hollywood’s most famous faces at cast parties throughout the festival. I hit the paparazzi-surrounded spot for both the session for TIFF tearjerker The Friend and Human Capital. The former is based on the Esquire article of the same name, which tells the story of a regular guy who uproots his life to move in with a young family he’s friends with after the wife’s terminal cancer diagnosis. The latter is a film about two families whose lives become intertwined after a fatal hit-and-run.

The Friend Nespresso TIFF panel, held on Saturday September 7, featured director Gabriela Cowperthwaite; actors Dakota Johnson and Jason Segel; producer Michael Pruss and Matthew Teague, author of the Esquire article and one of the film’s producers. A few days later on Tuesday, September 10, Human Capital director Marc Meyers was joined by the film’s actors, Peter Sarsgaard, Maya Hawke, Betty Gabriel and Alex Wolff.

Then, Wednesday, September 11, Hollywood legend and political activist Jane Fonda got candid at Toronto’s Hotel X for “A Conversation with Jane Fonda,” presented by L’Oreal Paris with host CTV’s Marilyn Denis.

Here are some of my favourite quotes from my TIFF 2019 events.

On being in a relationship:
“They say you fall in love. Well, that image – just think, you fall into love – no, we should walk on our own two feet into a relationship with somebody who is walking toward us on their own two feet,” says Fonda when asked how to avoid losing oneself in a relationship. “The problem is that women who grew up when I did weren’t supposed to be standing on their own two feet, and men would be too scared to walk on their own two feet toward a woman who was standing on her own two feet; they wanted women on their knees [laughs].” – said Jane Fonda, actress and political activist when asked how she avoids losing herself in a relationship.

On how we should treat others:
“It’s expressed in the movie; you don’t really know what’s going on in someone else’s life. That was just a wonderful reminder to me; I knew that, but just to dig deeper into everyone’s point of view leads to a little more compassion in the world and not just judge people like, ‘a wealthy woman must have no problems,’ or ‘a middle class guy is simply this.’ Everyone has their own hopes, desperations, flaws and things they’re good at…sometimes we just superficially judge people. I feel like – beyond all the issues of class – on a human level, that’s what I really think people will take away from this film,” said Human Capital director Marc Meyers when asked what he hoped people take away from the film.

On buying real estate:
“My dad said, when I was buying a house, would you pitch a tent there? And I had gone camping with him a lot as a kid and it was always like, ‘is it south facing? Is there a water source? Is it going to flood? Is it going to be dry? And I thought, that was really helpful; I would recommend that to anyone,” said Peter Sarsgaard when asked about the best piece of advice offered by his parents.

On not taking work home with you:
“They’re really intense scenes and you need to wash them at the end of the day and come back the next day you come back and you could be shooting something that’s lighthearted. You can’t be living in that for five weeks,” said Jason Segel on filming intense scenes for The Friend.

On the best advice from parents:
“Don’t make any choices that don’t bring you joy…Never do something because someone else tells you do or it’s a good move. Do things because there’s something about it that’s calling you to it and because it brings you joy. And, um, if you keep doing that, then it’s pretty difficult to get too far off track from the core of who you are as a person,” said Maya Hawke when asked by Jen Kirsch about the best advice her parents (once Hollywood power couple Ethan Hawke and Uma Thurman).

On the effect of money on the human psyche:
“Money doesn’t make you happier, but it’s certainly a good start, sort of thing. I do think that my character derives a lot pleasure from things he owns – and power and that beckons him. That’s real. I mean, we play a lot of lip service from the time we’re children to try to figure out the things that are going to matter in our lives and what is actually going to make us happier. We see everyone in the world virtually obsessed with the system of capitalism, driven to these crazy extremes of murder sometimes and destroying their own families and I want to know what drug that is. I see it around all the time. I’m someone who is privileged enough to have a decent amount of money. I see it as something that is destroying the world so I just wanted to get inside of that,” said Sarsgaard on what he learned after playing the role of affluent Quint in Human Capital.

On finding things to ground yourself:
“I was living above a barn in this little apartment above a barn on someone’s property in Alabama. And I would go on these walks and there were just so many horses. I really love horses; I grew up riding. So, that was really something I could grip onto. Even between the takes – some scenes we really maintained this mood – but for the most part we would go to a lot of playful places,” Dakota Johnson on filming the emotionally intense and draining film The Friend.

On learning (and evolving) from your peers:
“I loved working with him. I learned a lot about acting being next to Casey; he has a totally different approach than me and I learned a lot that I will take a lot moving forward,” says Jason Segel of working with Casey Affleck on the set of The Friend.

On living without regrets:
“If you get to the end and you haven’t figured it out, you’re going to die with all kinds of regrets. So, I figured, I have to know how to move forward in this last act, and in order to I need to know where I had been. We don’t want to be like Christopher Columbus, who didn’t know where he was going when he left; didn’t know where he was when he got there and didn’t know where he had been when he got back,” said Jane Fonda on taking a deep dive into her life before her 60^th birthday.

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CoolStraw: Most of us now have heard that disposable straws, the ones we use in our drinks, are awful for the environment. According to strawsintheocean.org, the US alone uses over 500 million straws per day – that’s enough to fill 127 school buses in one day. Most of the straws end up in the oceans polluting the water and jeopardizing marine life. The plastic doesn’t dissolve but breakdown into smaller pieces that can be ingested by the birds, turtles, and fish. While getting rid of straws completely probably won’t happen and some actually do need them (including elderly, people who have had surgeries, strokes etc) but our awareness and choices can influence having alternative straws in our daily life. Collapsable or stainless steel straws can be washed and reused. Yes, you can still enjoy your bubble tea and doing your part.

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Garden Sharing & Community Gardens: Toronto has rich soil right in our own urban backyards. You may not have the greenest of thumbs but if you have some space to share, you may want to look into opening up for neighbours, locals to plant vegetables and herbs to share your backyard space. Often in return, you get to enjoy a portion of the bounty. There are established networks, like gardensharingtoronto.ca already in place to help connect those on both sides – land owners and growers. Important to learn about by-laws but its a rewarding way to grow and share the freshest produce especially in the upcoming summer and fall seasons. Another idea is to coordinate with your neighbours on who’s growing what. Our neighbours have shared herbs, rhubarb, cherries, tomatoes, and zucchinis over the years. You’ll also help the environment by reducing the carbon footprint of transporting fresh produce. If you’ve got a community garden and want to donate the produce Foodshare.net is a great resource — no garden is too small.

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Recycling Coffee Pods: There has been much discussion about the coffee industry and the at-home use of coffee pods and capsules. Nespresso Canada offers an in-store recycling program as well as a mail-in program. Customers can request mail-in bags free of charge to mail back used coffee capsules with pre-paid postage provided. The discarded pods don’t need to be pre-cleaned as their program will separate the aluminum and the coffee grounds that are then composted. The aluminum is then used to make other goods as they’ve aligned with various global brands, we’ve seen items such as pens made from the Nespresso pods. Keurig has also made their K-Cup pods from acceptable recycled material and then can also be recycled again. However, consumers will need to remove the lids and coffee grounds before including in the recycling blue bin. An even better bet is to sign up with companies like Gojava, a company we previously featured, who will arrange everything for you from the drop-off of pods to the pick up of empty ones.

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Dresden: Australian-made eyewear brand has made its first foray into the international market right here in Toronto. Co-Founder Bruce Jeffreys tells us they are looking to expand in more North American cities that align with the company’s core values. The stylish, sustainable and eco-friendly eyewear brand offers frames that are made with recycled goods that have served a meaningful purpose in a previous life including strong nylon from fishing nets and out of circulation banknotes. One universal flattering style is offered but with endless colour combinations in frames, arms and pins. All aspects of this business has the environment in mind including materials used in the stores themselves. Lifelong guarantee and remarkably affordable pricing with frames starting at $49 means more accessibility to eye care. Most lens prescriptions can be done in as little as 10 minutes in-store while you wait, including sunglasses. Trendsetters here are catching onto this brand’s popularity and, by the way, nothing goes to waste. The company’s policy is bring it back to the store if anything should break, or if you just want to switch things up, or don’t want them anymore. They also have an in house recycling program. Dresden now has three locations in Toronto: stackkt market, Little Italy, and Riverside.

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ThinkDirty App: (iOS and Android) The green health and beauty sector is growing rapidly but how green is green? What we put on our bodies are just as important as what we put in.  Labels and ingredients can be pretty confusing and some beauty and green products can be misleading. The ThinkDirty App helps by educating consumers by breaking down the facts of each product – and there are thousands listed on the site. The simple app works by scanning in the barcode of any product on your mobile device. Information for that specific product will come up. You may be surprised to see what products live up to their marketing claims. The app lists many personal care, beauty, skincare and household products. Even some lesser known brands.

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